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Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - TruthSeeker - 12-30-2018
Many women in their 30s are beyond are still waiting for the perfect man. They would blame men for this problem, but I don't think this is the case.
A woman in her 30s has skipped plenty of opportunities. More opportunities than what the average man gets during his life cycle on Earth. They have so many choices that they don't make any choices because they are always looking for a reason to say no. Consequently, they spin their wheels and blame men.
Once a former female colleague told me that she would like to have a family but....guess what? "Men are not suitable."
Yet when I think about it - she had spent her 20s partying, dick jumping, losing money on mindless purchases...etc.
You can find many of those women on Tinder too. They will stay there for years with nothing to show for.
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - TruthSeeker - 12-31-2018
I've used Tinder for a long time with on and off periods. Remade it a month ago, but if I have to be honest, I will probably give up soon.
I regret using the app. I think it did me more harm than good. But it is what it is...
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - TruthSeeker - 12-31-2018
I matched with many women that were fine in my book. But most either don't answer or ghost me.
Many of the same women that I talked to years ago are still there.
If we assume that I am broken, why are they still there? It's virtually impossible for all men they have talked to to be so bad.
There are only two logical explanations:
1. They are looking for something that won't be.
2. They are simply there for attention and fun.
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Jonesy - 12-31-2018
There seems to be lot of older women with a long list of exes behind who apparently all turned out to be arse holes. All of them. Amazingly, she puts this down to bad luck. Nothing was her fault in the relationship. She is a perfect little princess who was so unfortunate to have seven ex-boyfriends who all treated her like garbage.
The only people more deluded than this type of woman are the men who believe her and tell themselves "I'll be different. I'll show her the love she deserves just for existing".
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Plato - 12-31-2018
I have many girls who are friends who seem ok through tbh . most women yes are simply boring and just trashy . it could be so much better than this people are just too dum now
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Navigator - 01-05-2019
I dated woman who was almost 40 years old and it's all true about this type of women - all others are bad, only I am good but it's often vice versa
And they are all selfish type of person - that's why they are alone
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Hans - 01-18-2019
This week, I had the misfortune to watch my country's version of the tv show "The Bachelor".
After just three episodes three girls have already left the show voluntarily. "He wasn't the right one.", they said, as did one of the girls who didn't get a rose. I suppose, the handsome and charismatic professional basketball player with his own company wasn't just good enough for them ...
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Navigator - 01-18-2019
(12-31-2018, 04:20 PM)Jonesy Wrote: There seems to be lot of older women with a long list of exes behind who apparently all turned out to be arse holes. All of them. Amazingly, she puts this down to bad luck. Nothing was her fault in the relationship. She is a perfect little princess who was so unfortunate to have seven ex-boyfriends who all treated her like garbage.
The only people more deluded than this type of woman are the men who believe her and tell themselves "I'll be different. I'll show her the love she deserves just for existing".
Hahah, perfect description of the one relationship that I had
Oh, well - at least sex was fantastic, mature woman are often much better in bed
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - TruthSeeker - 01-18-2019
(01-18-2019, 10:41 AM)Hans Wrote: This week, I had the misfortune to watch my country's version of the tv show "The Bachelor".
After just three episodes three girls have already left the show voluntarily. "He wasn't the right one.", they said, as did one of the girls who didn't get a rose. I suppose, the handsome and charismatic professional basketball player with his own company wasn't just good enough for them ...
What is that show about? Is it the one where a bunch of women are evaluating a single man?
RE: Older Women Waiting For The Perfect Man Fascinate Me With Their Stupid Thinking - Hans - 01-18-2019
(01-18-2019, 02:13 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote:(01-18-2019, 10:41 AM)Hans Wrote: This week, I had the misfortune to watch my country's version of the tv show "The Bachelor".
After just three episodes three girls have already left the show voluntarily. "He wasn't the right one.", they said, as did one of the girls who didn't get a rose. I suppose, the handsome and charismatic professional basketball player with his own company wasn't just good enough for them ...
What is that show about? Is it the one where a bunch of women are evaluating a single man?
It's actually the other way round. A bunch of women who court the guy. At the end of each episode he kicks the one or two least appealing women out. The last one standing will then be his new girlfriend at the end of the show.
Modern female attitude shines through though since a lot of the girls just act bitchy and one can get the impression it's him who should apply.