12-04-2018, 02:24 PM
(12-04-2018, 12:19 PM)Jonesy Wrote: I have seen ugly old men brimming with confidence when speaking to girls. They were people with very little self-awareness and not held back by insecurities. As such, they are often rated as the creepiest of the creeps.
People decode a social situation in whatever way suits their personal narrative. If a good looking guy fumbles his words and says something stupid it cos he's funny and 'fancies me'. If a fat or ugly looking guy does he's 'a creep'.
That said, average brahs can increase their attractability by not coming across as desperate or saying something stupid or ridiculous. Genuinely sending a girl an 'I love you' message after a first date is really going to make you less attractive in her eyes for example. I have had women interested in me up until I showed an interest back. I know this is venturing into mind games territory, but playing it cool with a 'see what happens' mindset towards dating and girls always looks better than a guy who is obviously trying for a full time relationship with the first pretty girl that will have him.
Creepy = not attractive enough
When you are super attractive, the adjectives mutate from negative to positive.
E.g., creepy becomes mysterious, bizarre; awkward becomes interesting...etc.
Also, the mind games you mentioned only happen when you are not attractive enough. Women play those games only with average brahs.
Moreover, those "red pill" tactics do no build anything long term ever. Of course, the dudes on there will tell you how they are "spinning plates" (haha) thanks to their muscles and "advanced negging", but the reality is very different.